HOW TO LOSE A GUY QUICKLY... LADIES!

  

  So you have finally met the one (or so you think). He does all the right things; calls you every so many times, texts you, takes you out on romantic dates etc. He possesses everything you’ve ever wanted in your dream guy. You can already see your wedding day and picture vividly, the number of kids you both will have in the nearest possible future. You don’t only imagine but you begin to take actions to turn this dream boyfriend into your dream husband… But wait! You need to slow down, take a deep breath and take a few steps back. That is if you do not want to lose this guy. But if you want to lose him, here are a few things to do to hasten that. Thank me later, lol.

BE CLINGY

     Every girl has met that guy that they finally dumped or didn’t even date because he called too many times, texted too many times, visited without prior notice, showers you with more than enough attention and just couldn’t let them have a moment to themselves. Reverse the situation and be that girl who can’t spend a single day without a man because the man has shown her a good time. Let me let you in on something about the male psychology. Men are naturally hunters, they love to pursue and conquer and this shouldn’t stop in a relationship. If you take the hunting role of a man and call and chase after him, he will lose interest in you. Be content in being a woman and let a man be a man except of course your intention is to lose him.

CRITICIZE HIM AND COMPLAIN

            I always say there is a difference between critique and criticism. The former is constructive and the latter is destructive. Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship if not the most important thing. The same thing can be said in two different ways and receive two different reactions from the same person, a positive or a negative reaction, depending on how it is said. Nobody loves criticism and least of all men and what is worst is a complaining woman. One who can never be satisfied by whatever her boyfriend does. Men love to shine in the eyes of their woman and when they discover that don’t anymore, they leave.

BE EXTREMELY INDEPENDENT

            Believe you me; there is nothing wrong with being your own woman and earning your own money and having a good job and all that. What I’m talking of here is the woman who pays all the dinner bills, does everything for herself without the man in her life. Men are raised from childhood, protect and provide for the woman. In some ways things may have changed but not much. A man wants to feel needed by his woman in some ways no matter how small. So if you want to lose your man, emasculate him completely and do it all yourself.

BE AGGRESSIVE AND CONTROLLING

            What most women don’t know that I have come to realise is that you cannot achieve anything with your man by force, control or manipulation. You may have achieved some things with him in the past using such tactics but it won’t last. A loud woman is unattractive and unfeminine and makes you more masculine in your man’s eyes whereas a gentle woman melts the heart of a man. So if you want to lose your man, be loud, aggressive and controlling.

            Now this is not an exhaustive list on the things to do in order to lose your man. We will bring more your way in later posts. In the meantime, if you have other things that are relationship spoilers just drop them in the comment box.

 XOXO Fab-book